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Old TestamentGenesis 20:5Law
“Said he not unto me, She is my sister?”

The full verse · Genesis 20:5 · KJV

he not unto me, is my ? and , herself , He is my : in the of my and of my have I this.

Asked by

Abimelech

Asked to

God

God, who appeared to Abimelech in a dream warning him that Sarah was a married woman and threatening him with death.

Why It Was Asked

Abimelech asks these questions to establish his innocence before God by demonstrating he acted on misinformation deliberately provided by both Abraham and Sarah. Rather than stating his defense, the interrogative form invites God to acknowledge the truthfulness of what Abraham and Sarah told him, thereby shifting moral responsibility for the deception away from Abimelech’s integrity.

The Response

God acknowledged that Abimelech acted in integrity of heart, confirmed that He Himself had kept Abimelech from sinning by touching Sarah, and explained He would not let Abimelech complete the adultery (Genesis 20:6).

The Bigger Picture

Abimelech’s double question establishes his legal defense by forcing acknowledgment of the facts that led to his innocent error. The interrogative form serves forensic purposes: rather than merely asserting what Abraham and Sarah said, the question format demands God validate these claims as true, thereby making the patriarch’s deception rather than the king’s gullibility the root problem. The Hebrew construction emphasizes personal testimony through the reflexive pronouns, “he himself” (hu’) and “she herself” (hi’), highlighting that both parties independently confirmed the sibling story. Abimelech strategically moves from establishing the factual basis of his mistake to declaring the moral quality of his motives, using covenant language of integrity and innocence that appears throughout Psalms as the vocabulary of the righteous. The question form here demonstrates judicial wisdom: by making God confirm the deception before asserting his innocence, Abimelech builds an irrefutable case that his actions flowed from integrity corrupted only by another’s lie.

For Your Life Today

Your integrity matters to God even when others deceive you. Abimelech’s defense illustrates that God sees not merely our actions but the purity of heart behind them, distinguishing between innocent mistakes based on others’ lies and willful sin. When you’ve been misled by someone you trusted and now face consequences for acting on false information, bring your case honestly before God as Abimelech did. He examines the heart’s intent, not just the hand’s deed. Scripture affirms this principle: “The LORD does not see as man sees; man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). This doesn’t exempt us from all consequences of misinformed actions, but it means God’s judgment accounts for what we genuinely knew and believed. Walk in integrity, verify what you can, and trust that God distinguishes between deception’s victim and its perpetrator.

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