“Give your counsel. What shall we do?”
The full verse · 2 Samuel 16:20 · KJV
Then to , among you what we shall .
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Ahithophel, David’s former counselor who defected to Absalom’s rebellion, whose advice was regarded as if one consulted the oracle of God (2 Samuel 16:23).
Why It Was Asked
The purpose behind the questionAbsalom seeks strategic counsel to consolidate his newly seized power, recognizing that military success requires more than momentum; it demands decisive political action that will make reconciliation with David impossible and cement his followers’ loyalty.
The Response
What Scripture recordsAhithophel counseled Absalom to publicly lie with David’s concubines on the palace roof, declaring this would make Absalom odious to his father and strengthen his followers’ resolve (2 Samuel 16:21-22). Absalom followed this counsel, fulfilling Nathan’s prophecy against David (2 Samuel 12:11-12).
The Bigger Picture
Where this fits in God's storyAbsalom’s question masks desperation beneath confidence. Having seized Jerusalem through momentum and defection, he now faces the paralyzing reality that holding power differs from taking it. The dual structure, imperative followed by interrogative, reveals his dependence: “Give counsel” acknowledges Ahithophel’s superiority, while “What shall we do?” admits uncertainty about consolidating the coup. The plural “we” (Hebrew נַּעֲשֶׂה, na’aseh) attempts to distribute responsibility for whatever extreme measures might follow. Absalom asks rather than commands because he recognizes the moment requires more than bravery; it demands irreversible action that will harden his followers’ commitment by making reconciliation impossible. His question becomes tragic precisely because he receives an answer. Sometimes the most dangerous prayers are those God permits us to direct toward the wrong counselor, allowing us to pursue the wisdom we prefer over the wisdom we need.
When you face a crossroads and desperately need direction, who gets your first question? Absalom’s inquiry exposes how easily we elevate human wisdom, even brilliant strategic thinking, above seeking God’s face. The counsel we pursue shapes the kingdoms we build. Before asking trusted advisors “what shall we do,” wisdom begins on our knees: “Lord, what would You have me do?” (Acts 9:6). James promises that God gives wisdom generously to all who ask without doubting (James 1:5). The difference between Absalom’s tragedy and your triumph may be simply this: whose counsel you seek first, and whether you’re willing to wait for an answer that aligns with God’s character rather than your ambition.
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