“What aileth thee?”
The full verse · 2 Samuel 14:5 · KJV
And the unto her, What aileth thee? And she , I am a , and mine is .
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The wise woman of Tekoa, summoned by Joab to approach the king with a fabricated case designed to change David’s heart toward Absalom.
Why It Was Asked
The purpose behind the questionDavid’s question invites the woman to present her grievance, fulfilling his royal duty as judge and showing pastoral concern for a subject in distress. By asking rather than dismissing her, he signals openness to hear her case and readiness to dispense justice.
The Response
What Scripture recordsThe woman recounted a fabricated story of being a widow whose two sons fought in the field, resulting in one killing the other. She explained that her extended family now demanded the death of the surviving son, which would extinguish her late husband’s name and leave her utterly desolate (2 Samuel 14:6-7).
The Bigger Picture
Where this fits in God's storyDavid’s question ‘What is your trouble?’ reveals the king functioning in his judicial capacity, opening the royal court to hear a subject’s grievance. The Hebrew construction מַה־לָּךְ (mah-lakh) appears frequently in Scripture when someone in authority invites explanation from one in distress. David chooses the question form rather than a command to state her business, which demonstrates both pastoral sensitivity and proper judicial protocol, the petitioner must articulate her own case. This inquiry becomes the hinge on which Joab’s entire strategy turns. The woman’s fabricated scenario will leverage David’s compassionate response to expose his inconsistency in refusing reconciliation with his own son Absalom. The question form matters because it grants her agency to construct the narrative that will convict the king. David’s openness here contrasts sharply with his hardness toward Absalom, revealing how judicial wisdom doesn’t automatically translate to familial wisdom. The inquiry also establishes David’s reputation as an accessible monarch who genuinely cares about the plight of widows, making his later failure toward his own household all the more tragic.
When someone asks about your trouble, they’re offering more than curiosity; they’re extending dignity. David’s question reminds us that listening is itself a form of justice, especially for those society overlooks. When you ask ‘What’s troubling you?’ and truly wait for the answer, you mirror God’s attentiveness to the brokenhearted. Psalm 34:18 promises that ‘The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.’ Your willingness to hear someone’s burden may be the first step toward their healing. Don’t rush past people’s pain with quick fixes. Sometimes the most Christlike response is simply, ‘Tell me more.’
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